This year, Joseph is in K1 and Joanne is in N2. Wait, Joseph, my son, in K1????? Oh my gosh!!! Joseph is in K1!!!!! Wow!! Didn't really realise he's so grown up!!! Oh dear..... I'm in serious denial mode here... starting to feel a bit depressed... HE's IN K1!!! Okay, grab a hold of your sanity, woman!! Take it easy, take a deep breathe... Everything's going to be okay... it's just another phase of his development... he's still your precious little baby... oh my.... I have to start psychoing myself to let go and let Joseph become what he is to become... such joy and agony of sweet motherhood...
Well, at least Joanne is still in Nursery class. But very soon next year, she'll be in kindergarten class. Okay, take it easy, take a deep breathe, look at her now and treasure what she is today and everyday. This way, the day when she becomes a K1 kid will seem longer to arrive... I wish...
Jojo have stopped taking violin class this year as they didn't seem interested at all to continue learning the instrument. Although I was very torn between "forcing" them to continue learning it and letting go, I finally decided on the latter as it's not healthy, mentally, for them (and me) to be forced to learn the violin when they are not ready to do so. But I'll continue to ask Papajojo to play the violin with them at home regularly so that they'll remember whatever they've learnt so far. I just hope I did the right thing and not be too lenient to them in this violin-learning issue.
In school, Joseph is taking up the English Speech and Drama Enrichment course (ESDE) every Wednesday. There's five other kids in the course, all are his friends at school. Joseph really loves attending it. He would share with me what they did during the course and talked non-stop when I went to pick him up. He also enjoyed the "Show and Tell" session whereby he's supposed to bring a favourite toy or book to show and talk about it to his teacher and friends. I hope this course will continue to improve his speech and self expression abilities, and improve his social skills. Most importantly, I hope Joseph will enjoy learning and interacting with his teacher and friends in fun ways.
Since the ESDE course wasn't available to younger kids, I let Joanne sign up for ballet lesson. She had expressed great interest to want to learn dancing and every day, she would display some ballerina poses or some funny dance moves. Initially I wanted Joanne to learn Chinese dance as I wanted her to better appreciate her own Chinese culture. But after enquiring a few places, they only take in kids 5 years and older. So Papajojo and I agreed to let her start with ballet dance first. Then we'll see how it goes, whether she'll want to continue learning ballet dance or start Chinese dance.
She's learning Baby Ballet at Bt Timah Plaza every Wednesday, after school . So far she had two lessons already and the teacher said she's learning very well! I'm really proud of her!! She looks so grown up in the ballet attire. Will up the photos to share with you later. My wish for her is that she'll appreciate ballet as a wonderful art of self-expression through body language and movement, and as a form of exercise to keep oneself fit and healthy.
Since Jojo's enrichment lessons ends at the same time on Wednesdays afternoons, I had difficulty try to fetch them both at the same time. Thank God that Jojo's friends' mummies offered to help fetch one of them while I go get the other. It's really a blessing to get to know the other Stay-At-Home Moms (SAHM) whose kids are attending the same school as Jojo. When we meet after dropping our kids or fetching them to and fro school, we would chat and share about our daily happenings which our hubbies wouldn't might not be too interested to know, and offer sound advise when needed. It's like a social support group for me, that I'm not alone in giving up paid work to put my children as my priority in life now.
It's God's blessing that our family financial situation gives me the option to choose to work or be a SAHM to look after our kids who grow up so fast. But at times, I wonder whether I should put my education qualifications to better use by contributing to society in other ways, other than raising happy healthy kids. Well, time permitting, I'll be looking to do volunteer work while kids are in school. The volunteer work hours will be flexible and I'll feel I'm putting my qualifications to good use while looking after Jojo well.









































